THERE IS A CANDLE FLAME THAT WILL GO OUT WHEN YOU DIE.
It will fade dimly and gradually, and your vision of it will seem to zoom in closer and closer, until you feel you are enveloped in the flame just as it extinguishes.
death – standing in the clear light
ALL ABOUT ENLIGHTENMENT 
This one is haunting, but at the same time, reassuring in some way. I love it.
I’m so glad you get the reassurance part! It’s much like falling asleep, but we don’t freak out about falling asleep, lol! When we can view death as just a pause, then it becomes something we can plan for rather than freaking out about it… Then there’s that part about being separated from loved ones… Man, I have so many posts I need to put up! Thank you, Amber!